Well, you are not alone, David

I had that problem too. Other than that, it had a repaint problem that is so common to
java based GUIs. Agreed, it is feature packed and good looking but only when it's not doing anything
I tried Eclipse again after Ilja's recommendation and so far it looks good. It's GUI is definitely crisp and responsive. I am using the Lamboz plugin for JSP/Servlet, which is a pain to configure. Although I have been able to get it working, I still haven't got a complete handle on it.