This week's book giveaway is in the OCAJP forum. We're giving away four copies of Programmer's Guide to Java SE 8 Oracle Certified Associate (OCA) and have Khalid A Mughal & Rolf W Rasmussen on-line! See this thread for details.
I think that this is out of scope of this forum, but you can use something like exe4j. Here's a good link you can use for more info. As for uploading it to your website, I don't understand what you want. Please elaborate.