Originally posted by Thomas Paul:
Too bad that certain anonymous posters chose to destroy this conversation. It had been moving along nicely for a little while. I think we will have to revert back to deleting certain topics. Some people have demonstrated that they can not discuss certain topics.
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Originally posted by Cindy Glass:
How can he do that - he doesn't know who you are. Bunches of different folks may have posted using that anonymous name :roll: .
That would not happen if you pick a name to sign on with. Then only YOU could post under that name < sigh >.
Originally posted by To Thomas:
Cindy,
I think it is quite obvious which posts were from that anonymous guy, but just incase they were not, I would ask Thomas to support his claim that that anonymous guy was being "hostile". I mean, I didn't think he was being "hostile".
Thomas,
Perhaps you can give some examples. I mean you are the one talking about having support for one's claims. And Thomas, weren't you the one that called him a "twit". That seems more hostile to me than anything he said to you.
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Originally posted by Thomas Paul:
I did not call him a twit. I said that he was acting like a twit. there are several things that were hostile. First he insinuated that Jason was too simple to understand the issues. Then he accused me of claiming that American Indians were terrorists and they they were not ill treated. When challenged on these things he just got huffy as if he was too smart to bother to respond to us mere mortals. Also he accused jason of being incredibly biased and then said that he wouldn't bother responding to my posts. In other words, he started acting like a twit.
[ July 31, 2002: Message edited by: Thomas Paul ]
Originally posted by Thomas Paul:
Also he accused jason of being incredibly biased and then said that he wouldn't bother responding to my posts. In other words, he started acting like a twit.
[ July 31, 2002: Message edited by: Thomas Paul ]
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Originally posted by Jim Yingst:
I'm inclined to ban anonymous posts in sensitive threads like this one. I'm not saying all anonymous posts or posters are bad, but there's a long history of this sort of behavior at the ranch which indicates to me (and others) that anonymous posters are more likely to stir up trouble and be generally inconsiderate. If you have something worth saying, there is absolutely no reason why you can't register a real account to say it. Just make up a name if you are afraid to use a real one. But do not use obviously made-up names like "Truth" or "To Thomas". The former is obnoxiously pretentious, while the latter is merely obnoxious. If you want to address a post "To Thomas" you can put it in the body of your post like a normal person. Making it the account name is just an abuse of the system, quite unnecessary (and counter to our stated display name policies).
So why do were care, given that we can't really enforce that the name you use is actually your real name? The truth is, most of us don't much care if it's your real name or not - but we want some sense of continuity between posts. Was anonymous post A made by the same person as anonymous post B, or not? Right now there are just a few anonymous posters in this thread, and it seems we can generally tell them apart - but if left unchecked, it only gets worse. We've seen it get worse in the past, and have no attention of playing along with these silly games this time around. Maybe it seems silly to you, but it's also easy to avoid if you actually have anything worth saying.
I will note that part of the problem may be that the name "Truth" echoes the nom-de-guerre of one (or more) particularly obnoxious posters found in this newsgroup in the past. In general the current "Truth" seems to be a much nicer conversationalist than the past incarnation. If it's the same person, perhaps he's just matured. Or more likely this is someone else who had the misfortune to make a bad choice of name. Either way, I suspect this may account for some added frustration and hostility on our parts in this case. And when "Truth" starts changing his name at random, he starts to resemble the past incarnation that much more. So really, do us all a favor and just get a real account. Thank you.
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Originally posted by Michael Ernest:
It's also not a good idea to bait a sheriff with sarcasm and fallacious argument on the principle that all things should be "fair."
This site is not dedicated to the truth. It is, as we say on the sign, a friendly place for Java greenhorns to meet. Friendly to me does not mean we all have to be kissy-face to each other. It does mean that, on the whole, it's easier for all to remain friendly if a) you're not manufacturing facts; and b) you offer and elicit opinions and thoughts, c) you avoid aggressive, belittling interrogations, dark sarcasm and general whiny crap. c) is also a good idea when you're saying something stupid, but you believe your preeminent intellectual might gives you license to do so.
The fine tradition of baiting authority (i.e., sheriffs) so that you can eventually decry their abuses has limits. If Thomas doesn't delete the stupid stuff in threads like this, I will. If that has a chilling effect on more of the same, I'm ok with that.
No one has a right to be stupid in this forum; you have an invitation to be stupid, and there's a big difference. If your brand of foolishness causes a group Macarena tribute, no worries. If it starts a war of political crap, appeals to emotionalism over divisive topics, constant rhetorical oneupsmanship, I'll send you to /dev/null myself.
[ July 31, 2002: Message edited by: Michael Ernest ]
Originally posted by To Thomas:
If my anonymous posts were removed for the simple fact that they were anonymous, then that is fine. If it is the policy of Java Ranch to give better treatment to registered members, I can understand that. But if Thomas has removed my posts because I no longer wanted to argue a point that seemed worthless to argue, then I see no point in registering a name, because I still will not agree with him, and I still find it worthless to argue some points that seem to me fairly simple to understand.
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Originally posted by Michael Ernest:
I'm not bothering to talk to or listen to "you" because I don't know who "you" are. But "you" seem to want to be taken seriously. "Your" points, as I've skimmed them, strike me neither as self-evident or simple, unless of course "your" expectation is that they be accepted on face value.
Just to avoid posts on the matter, I am not arbitrating between you and Thomas or Jason, and I hope Jim isn't going to bother either. We're not here to judge right from wrong, we're here to ensure this forum remains a friendly place.
Originally posted by Jim Yingst:
It looks to me like Thomas started getting fed up just after you misquoted him about the Indians, and things escalated from there. I don't particularly want to play referee on a point-for point basis - who has that kind of time? Ultimately, the more work it is for me and others to keep a thread open and at least nominally civil, the more likely it is that I or others will simply close it or delete it. I hope it doesn't come to that, as I've enjoyed a lot of the posts so far.
I realize the decision to delete anonymous posts may seem rather ad hoc to you, particularly since you are the beneficary.But to address one of your concerns: no, I honestly do not believe Thomas is just using this as an excuse to delete posts he disagrees with. I think anonymous posts are at best sort of an ongoing irritant for many of us, which become more aggravating in the course of a serious discussion when tempers start to rise. And we really are better off without them. I realize that may sound like a convenient retroactive justification; nonetheless, it's also the truth. (As far as what I believe, at least.) I hope that works for you.
Note that "To Thomas" is still not an acceptable display name. I appreciate that you did register an account, but please try again.
[ July 31, 2002: Message edited by: Jim Yingst ]
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Originally posted by Jim Yingst:
Urgh. Again, I don't want to get into a detailed post-mortem here. And it sounds like some posts may have been deleted which I never saw; I have no idea how hostile they were or were not. My general impression is that at least for the majority of your posts I've seen, you have interesting things to say, and present them in a polite and reasonable manner. However misguided your ideas may be.It's just recently that things started to break down. You should probably try to avoid summarizing the views of others unless you preface it with "if I understand you correctly..." or the like. (Which worked fairly well when you did it, I thought.) But when people feel they are being misquoted, it really ticks them off.
I think it's very valuable to learn more about how others think, particularly when they disagree with you. But we must all be prepared to accept that in many cases the most we may be able to achieve is to learn, not to change the ideas of others. No matter how logical our arguments may seem to ourselves.Sure, it can happen that you manage to convince someone to change their mind - but don't count on it. Often a wall is reached, and when we sense we aren't getting through with logic, we want to lash out instead. With veiled insults, or condescension, or other ways. Which is usually a good time to get up from the terminal and go for a walk instead.
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You really must lead a sheltered life. So what names did I call you? I said that you were acting like a twit... once. What false accusations did I make against you? None. And your posts that got deleted were deleted for being offensive, not for defending yourself.Originally posted by <Question>:
I think <slacker> raised a good point. When you have a Sheriff taking part in the argument, you have the potential problem of the Sheriff resorting to name calling, and false accusations, and then deleting the posts by someone trying to defend oneself.
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Originally posted by Thomas Paul:
Here is my main gripe... you misquoted me about the American Indians. When I challenged you on it, you continued to misquote me. That was when I said you were acting like a twit. And whether you have a real name or not, my response would have been the same. You deliberately misquoted me to lead others to the conclusion that I was a racist. Those are "fightin' words". And as I said, if you were half a man you would have apologized. But instead you are an anonymous coward hiding behind a false identity.
Originally posted by Jim Yingst:
Urgh. Again, I don't want to get into a detailed post-mortem here.
Originally posted by Anthony Goshaunee:
Ok, it is me. I have registered a real account. Hopefully now I will no longer be subject to name calling and false accusations.
Thomas, if you look, you and Jason deliberately misquoted me and tried to imply that I supported cold blooded murder. Furthermore, when you start to delete posts, you begin to not allow people to defend themselves. You also deleted a post from "slacker", just because he did not agree with you.
Jim, I hope you saw this post. Perhaps you missed it because Thomas got to delete it first, but all it said was that he did not see anything insulting in my posts and he suggested that perhaps it is unfair to allow the Sheriff to participate in an argument and then delete posts. "slacker" was very polite and did not say anything "hostile". Perhaps you, Thomas, should apologize to "slacker" if it was in fact you who deleted his post for no other reason then the fact that he did not agree with you. If there is another reason, please share.
I will not apologize to you Thomas, because I do not feel I owe you an apology. You obviously think I do, and I think that you owe me an apology. Given this situation, I hope we can just forget the past postings and go from here.
Please note that I do not appreciate the comment, "if you were half a man you would have apologized". This is implying that I am not half a man, and given the very sensitive rules on this forum, I think this is a veiled insult. I will assume that that veiled insult was directed at the "anonymous" me and I will ignore it, and I hope that you can avoid such insults now that I have registered an account.
OK, show me the post where I implied that you supported cold blooded murder. If you can't then I expect two apologies from you. If you can, then I will apologize.Originally posted by Anthony Goshaunee:
Thomas, if you look, you and Jason deliberately misquoted me and tried to imply that I supported cold blooded murder.
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Veiled? Not at all. There is nothing veiled about that insult.Originally posted by Anthony Goshaunee:
Please note that I do not appreciate the comment, "if you were half a man you would have apologized". This is implying that I am not half a man, and given the very sensitive rules on this forum, I think this is a veiled insult.
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For a period I was deleting any anonymous post without even bothering to read them. Since the anonymous posts had become offensive, I felt we needed to end anonymous posting in this thread.Originally posted by Anthony Goshaunee:
"There were, if I remember correctly, two posts of his that Thomas deleted. They were as I remember them, a bit insulting."
Are you talking about two posts from "slacker" or from me? If you are talking about from "slacker" then I am sure you did not read the one that was recently deleted. I doubt anyone could find those posts even a bit insulting.
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This is implying that I am not half a man
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Originally posted by Jason Menard:
Yeah I have to get in on this one too. Show me where i misquoted you please. If I did misquote you, I will appologize. If you cannot show this, I will expect the same from you. Of course then I suppose we will go off for several messages about what it really means to misquote someone. :roll:
This really is getting ridiculous. I would much rather get back to the topic. If only I could remember what it was.
Originally posted by Rob Slacker:
Iam the slacker dude. As long as they allow anonymous posting, I think I will go with the anon posting.Always hated the logon process.
To be fair Anthony, only my last post was deleted.
My suggestion was that only the moderator responsible for this section( MD) should be allowed to delete/modify posts.I think moderators who participate in discussions, cannot effectively moderate.Jim Yingst has been reasonable and consistent in his editing/stopping threads.
Anyway as I said before, it is their site and they can run it as they please.
Originally posted by Rob Slacker:
My suggestion was that only the moderator responsible for this section( MD) should be allowed to delete/modify posts.I think moderators who participate in discussions, cannot effectively moderate.
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Originally posted by Mapraputa Is:
Intersting, Slashdot seem to have similar rule (if I understood them right):
"Moderators can not participate in the same discussion as both a moderator and a poster. This is to prevent abuses, and while it is one of the more controversial aspects of the system, I'm sticking to it."
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