posted 20 years ago
I haven't used many-to-many relationships with Hibernate yet, but I can make an educated guess.
Load one of the objects (A).Find the other object (B) in A's collection of Bs.Remove B from the collection.Save A.
I don't think you'll need to do the same from the other side, or if it depends on whether or not it's an inverse association, or if N:N relations can even be inverse.