In the future, please indent your code, and use
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Looking at your code I see a couple possibilities:
(1) The isReadable() is only evaluated when isConnectable() is true. So you can only read if the key indicates that the channel is both connectable and readable at the same time. What if there's a delay - e.g., when you connect, the server still has to write something before you can read it. So maybe yoiu have one even where isConnectable() is true, then later one or more events where isReadable() is true (but not isConnectable(), because you've already connected). You miss these because of your block structure.
(2) I'm not sure what your "finishConnecta()" method is doing; there are too many typos in that area, and the code doesn't parse.