I am stuck on the step that says:
Download the JK2 connector. Again, this comes from jakarta.apache.org. Make sure to get the version for Apache 2 servers. This comes as just a .zip file with a .dll (mod_jk2-2.0.43.dll) in it. Copy this DLL into <APACHE>/modules. (The other files in there are all called .so and yours is a DLL - don't sweat it, this is right.)
Can someone tell me exactly where to get this file or recomend a diffrent tutorial/book.
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