First I'd take a course in how to ask questions. The first lesson of that course should involve an explanation of why it's important to figure out what the correct place to ask your questions actually is.
The soul is dyed the color of its thoughts. Think only on those things that are in line with your principles and can bear the light of day. The content of your character is your choice. Day by day, what you do is who you become. Your integrity is your destiny - it is the light that guides your way. - Heraclitus