Hi, you can find a list of BEA customers at: http://www.bea.com/customers/index.shtml , and this is only from BEA. About knowing if a site or application is using ejbs, you don�t have how to know that as ejbs are used to build the business logic and the front end can be implemented using different tecnologies.
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