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Originally posted by Melvin Menezes:
Thank you for your replies....he thought.
Originally posted by Melvin Menezes - but now slightly modified:
Story continues:
Joe used to go to a local swimming pool everyday during lunch time. Usually, he would even pee in one end of the the crowded place and no one would complain. An old lady who could not take much care of her health used to come at around the same time. Sometimes the lady found a place to sit on the stairs, at the far corner of the pool, where she was not bothered by Joe's pee, but sometimes she had to float next to him. Joe had the right to pee because there was no rule against it and the lady had no right to ask him to stop peeing. But Joe, not exercising his rights, used to avoid peeing near her (he would go out of the restaurant for a few minutes) when she is nearby realizing she was uncomfortable. He had a feeling of happiness within. He would get praises and smiles form the lady and sometimes a pat on the back. Thinking he was being good, he used to take pride in his actions.
Sometimes later, more pee-ers started comming to the pool and and not all of them were considerate like Joe. The old lady would have to bear the pee often. A few more old people started going to that same restaurant and got angry at the youngsters for not being thoughtful of others. Many oldies had trouble and couldn't breath. There were complaints against the pool not being good and that peeing should be banned.
The pool was run by a private owner and had no obligations to listen to those demands. But he had to for political reasons and the fear of losing customers.
Joe, as usual, had no problems in not peeing in the pool. But sometimes, the pool was not crowded at all. There was lots of room for a handful of patrons that could swim far away from each other. But Joe could not pee. It was not about being thoughtful, it was not that of friendliness. It was about the law and the restrictions. Peeing not allowed. Joe was a changed person, he did not have the feeling of happiness within anymore. "How many more restrictions will I have to face?", he thought.
Matthew Phillips
Actually you have it backwards. We expect the government to enforce courtesy because everyone is discourteous. Do you think that we would have all these anti-smoking laws if smokers weren't so rude? First they smoked in the workplace and if you complained they told you too bad. Then when they were kicked out they hung around the door so that you had to hold your breath to get in every building.Originally posted by Matthew Phillips:
We expect it to enforce courtesy upon us so that we no longer have to do so.
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Now you have confused me. Poor Joe should be glad that the government does intervene and give him until the kid is 18 or his 16 year old kid could just walk out on him. The law is the only thing that is giving poor Joe any authority over his son in the first place.Originally posted by Melvin Menezes:
Who decided that the age of 18 makes him a separate adult? There goes my another right down the drain. The right to lead my own child in the right direction."
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Originally posted by Melvin Menezes:
I appreciate your inputs. Thank you all.
Another little episode:
When Jane gave birth to their first baby, Joe couldn't keep his feet on the earth. He was flying in the seventh heaven. Like he was born again, like he was going to live through his childhood a second time. He made sure he could spend as much time at home as possible, with his newly grown family, away from office. Toys, sweets, books, and bykes. You name it and he has it. Little did he know that the world around him was changing. Changing at the speed of light. Before he could sit back and blink an eye, John was already 16.
John had his own friends, his own likes and dislikes, his own taste, ... and his own set of rights, ...or so he thought. He had the right to watch TV, a right to date whomever he liked, a right to go places without prior parental consent, and a right to experiment with pot. A right to freedom and liberty and not be dictated by a couple of old-generation people. "I have always been good. I always got an A or atleast a B in school. Now all I ask is to choose my way of doing things. After all I am already 16 which is not at all far from being legally adult. What do they know about the latest trends? They are just too much. Not to do this, not to go there... This is kind of a child abuse!"
Joe sometimes had a tough time confronting his son. "When we were your age, we used to go and play in the woods. We would run and climb and fall and hurt ourselves. Watching TV was a sunday family activity and computer games were unheard of, much less having a separate e-mail account with secret passwords. And you don't like us because we are being rude to you? When I was your age, your grandfather would give me a tight slap on my face if I misbehaved. And even today I would not argue back if he were to shout at me. It is all my fault. I should not have raised you here in the city. Your grandma was right. We should have moved back to our pleasant ville. Talking about rights? What the hell do you know about what OUR GENERATIONS went through so that your generation is enjoying your freakin' rights?"
Joe always thought that he kind of owned his family and had the right to take decisions on their behalf, always!. Suddenly he realized, he will lose all the rights over his own son in only a period of two more years. "How will it be different when he turns 18? Will he cease being my son? Who decided that the age of 18 makes him a separate adult? There goes my another right down the drain. The right to lead my own child in the right direction."
Matthew Phillips
Originally posted by Thomas Paul:
Actually you have it backwards. We expect the government to enforce courtesy because everyone is discourteous. Do you think that we would have all these anti-smoking laws if smokers weren't so rude? First they smoked in the workplace and if you complained they told you too bad. Then when they were kicked out they hung around the door so that you had to hold your breath to get in every building.
Matthew Phillips
Originally posted by Matthew Phillips:
The expectation from government was already there, otherwise no one would have turned to government for the solution. In the case of smoking in the workplace, why not go to your boss? Isn't that the appropriate place to start with complaints about the office. Then your boss has to make a choice between a non-smoking worker who, based on statistics, is probably more productive than the smoking worker. Life really can be that simple.
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Originally posted by Melvin Menezes:
Joe: Whaat? what do you mean i can't talk.
Jack: well, you can't talk, means, you can't talk. you can't talk on a cell phone while you are driving. That's dangerous and against the law. You can get distracted and cause accidents.
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Originally posted by Jason Menard:
If we can simplify things a little bit... Should non-smokers have to put up with others who voluntarily emit dangerous carcinogens in their vicinity?
Matthew Phillips
Originally posted by Thomas Paul:
And if your boss smokes? Or just doesn't care? Or likes the smoker more because they play poker together?
Matthew Phillips
Originally posted by Matthew Phillips:
Then you leave and go somewhere else. Or you go to your boss's boss. Go to the owner of the company and show the owner how smoking in the office is costing the company money. Show the owner the cost of you leaving the company. It doesn't require the government stepping in to tell everyone what to do with their rights.
Would you find it acceptable if the government decided that all businesses must allow their employees to smoke in the office?
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Originally posted by Matthew Phillips:
No, but should it require the police power of govnerment to resolve the issue when one or the other can leave?
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Matthew Phillips
Originally posted by Thomas Paul:
Jack and Joe are really a couple of morons, aren't they?
Matthew Phillips
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Matthew Phillips
Originally posted by Rufus BugleWeed:
Employers have shown a great interest in providing employees a safe workplace over the years. Which graemlin is pure sarcasm?
If I'm not mistaken somewhere there is a phrase about life, liberty and .... inalienable rights
Workplace safety is covered under life. So many money grubbing employers had no interest in whether employees lived or died. Probably in so many cases death was more profitable.
Matthew Phillips
establish Justice, insure domestic Tranquility, provide for the common defence, promote the general Welfare, and secure the Blessings of Liberty to ourselves and our Posterity
To make all Laws which shall be necessary and proper for carrying into Execution the foregoing Powers
Matthew Phillips
Originally posted by Matthew Phillips:
The first quote you brought from the Constitution is the preamble. It states the purpose for the rest of the document. It doesn't answer the question of how. It answers the question of why.
The 2nd quote if followed by a strict enumeration of the powers the government can execute. The first one is to provide for the general welfare. James Madison, one of the members of the Constitutional congress, wrote in one of "The Federalist Papers" that providing for the general welfare was limited by the rest of the enumerated powers. Those are answers to the question of how that the preamble implies.
Matthew Phillips
Why do you keep bringing up the Constitution? We are talking about smoking in thw workplace. I know of no federal law to prohibit smoking in thw orkplace and since the Constitiuion only limits the federal governments power it has no bearing on this discussion.Originally posted by Matthew Phillips:
I want my employer to provide a safe workplace for me. I see no reason to involved govnerment in the transaction at all. In fact, I am unable to find any Constitutional justification for the federal government to be involved at all. I can't speak to the Consitutional authoritiy of state and local governments.
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Originally posted by Matthew Phillips:
Maybe I'm naive, but I believe we can learn from the past. The government is in no way obligated to protect you from giving up your rights. If you choose to work in a dangerous environment, then the government can not and should not protect you from your decision.
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Originally posted by Thomas Paul:
Why do you keep bringing up the Constitution? We are talking about smoking in thw workplace. I know of no federal law to prohibit smoking in thw orkplace and since the Constitiuion only limits the federal governments power it has no bearing on this discussion.
Matthew Phillips
Originally posted by Thomas Paul:
Yes, you are correct that you are naive. I would suggest that you read the history of why we have these laws.
You can start here:
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/1884365302
I remember when that book was required reading in high school.
Matthew Phillips
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