Originally posted by Richard Hawkes:
Originally posted by herb slocomb:
[qb]why would anyone want to contribute to the stigmatization of any group by perpetuating ANY stereotype in even a small way? Because its not ALL stigmatisation.
There appears to be double-standard at work in the use of stereotypes. We all know what we can say to our friends and colleagues and always push the boundaries a little further with them. I can jest with my Scots colleague at Daewoo about the English and Scots but you wouldn't find me walking into a bar in Glasgow and start cracking jokes about tartan skirts (not unless I fancied a Glaswegian kiss - another stereotype).
The double standard largely vanishes if we look at the context. Context is the key. If I hear a joke about gays for example it will become apparent to me if the joker is a closet gay-basher or is just trying to make a joke. If it is obvious they actually have a problem with gay people I'll will find the joke offensive, otherwise I will probably laugh. Admittedly this is a very subtle distinction and the confusion can cause offence much like your experience using the hillbilly accent. But if no malice is intended then its fair game otherwise we'll all go nuts! Everything is offensive to someone, somewhere. Causing occasional or unintended offence however is not the same as discrimination and bigotry, and is a fact of life although I never aim to offend anyone.[/QB]
Originally posted by John Dunn:
Laughter sets the spirit free to move through even the most tragic of circumstances. It helps us shake our heads clear, get our feet back under us, restoring our sense of balance and purpose. Humor is integral to our peace of mind and to our ability to go beyond survival.
--Captain Gerald Coffee POW in Vietnam for seven years
...from his book:
[http://search.barnesandnoble.com/OopBooks/UsedBook.asp?userid=33W59VM1IZ&ean=2781536113621]
Beyond Survival[/URL]
He talks about Gallows Humor and how it was so necessary for the American POWs in VietNam. I guess one could say that laughter is similar to crying, in that they both relieve stress. Unfortunately, we don't always remember that when we need to...
[ July 23, 2003: Message edited by: John Dunn ]
Originally posted by herb slocomb:
I think the context and motivation is more important.
"Thanks to Indian media who has over the period of time swiped out intellectual taste from mass Indian population." - Chetan Parekh
Originally posted by Donald R. Cossitt:
Herb; I have found that if you don't learn to laugh at yourself once in awhile, many will do it for you. Chill out, friend; let your hair down a little, have some fun. In all of the years I know of since blonde jokes, you are the only one I have ever heard take this vain - do you work for that freedom-inept group called the ACLU?
Originally posted by Ravish Kumar:
A joke:
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A blonde is pulled over by a couple of highway patrolmen, one a seasoned veteran and the other a wet-behind-the-ears rookie. After checking the blondes license and going thru the normal routine, the older officer tells the younger "When you give her back her licence, unzip you pants, and pull out your pecker." Shocked, the younger argues momentarily but is eventually persuaded. So, he goes back hands the young lady her license, unzips and reveals his manhood. The blonde says:
"Oh shit, not another breathalyzer!"
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Oh shit ,, blonde is offended.
next try
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A surd is pulled .....
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"Oh shit, not another breathalyzer!"
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Oh shit, surd is offended..
hmmm....
lemme try again ..
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A woman is pulled .....
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"Oh shit, not another breathalyzer!"
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Oh no .. Jessica has become angry ...
another try..
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A man is pulled .....
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"Oh shit, not another breathalyzer!"
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Oh my God .. hird is looking for me with gun in his hand..
sorry .. I will try again to tell this joke without offending anyone.
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A Indian is pulled .....
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"Oh shit, not another breathalyzer!"
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Shankar will kill me ..
another try ...
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A russian is pulled .....
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"Oh shit, not another breathalyzer!"
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is Map sleeping ??
one more try ..
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A american is pulled .....
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"Oh shit, not another breathalyzer!"
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no no .. I am already famous as anti-american..
hmm...
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A redneck is pulled .....
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"Oh shit, not another breathalyzer!"
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Sri will laugh but who knows grandpa MM start looking for me .. ..
BUT I WANT TO TELL/SHARE THIS JOKE ....
please herb help me to share this joke with you ..
Aha !!
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An alien is pulled .....
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"Oh shit, not another breathalyzer!"
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I hope aliens dont understand english ....
Originally posted by Ravish Kumar:
can you elaborate this please ?
Either you dont know what kind of jokes are called insulting and racist or you are debating for the sake of discussion.
"Thanks to Indian media who has over the period of time swiped out intellectual taste from mass Indian population." - Chetan Parekh
Originally posted by Ravish Kumar:
>>Just susbtitute "I" or "my father" or "my co-worker" or any specific person instead of a group of people based on gender and/or race.
Can I put herb ?? Will it be OK for you
AW have you ever lived in Hostel ??
I can assume .. NO ..
Yes .. in jokes .. I, My Father, co-worker etc are used as character... OR I was in bad company.
But mind it, to use such perhis/her father as character.sonalized characters you should be very much personal with that person else dont use his/her name or
just for you .. so that you can also laugh on this good joke ..
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I was pulled .....
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"Oh shit, not another breathalyzer!"
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I am very much personal with me.
Commentary From the Sidelines of history
Originally posted by herb slocomb:
I am now offended.
"Thanks to Indian media who has over the period of time swiped out intellectual taste from mass Indian population." - Chetan Parekh
Originally posted by Ravish Kumar:
anyone .. what is this PC ??
Originally posted by Ravish Kumar:
Where were you when there were jokes on redneck or on any other community/race ??
OR you are one of those persons who are quite cool and sit & watch TV if someone else house is burning and then blame whole world when fire reachs your own home.
No offence .. just curious ..
"JavaRanch, where the deer and the Certified play" - David O'Meara
Originally posted by Cindy Glass:
it is laughing at MEN,
"No one appreciates the very special genius of your conversation as the dog does."
Originally posted by John Dunn:
Laughter sets the spirit free to move through even the most tragic of circumstances. It helps us shake our heads clear, get our feet back under us, restoring our sense of balance and purpose. Humor is integral to our peace of mind and to our ability to go beyond survival.
--Captain Gerald Coffee POW in Vietnam for seven years
...from his book:
Beyond Survival
He talks about Gallows Humor and how it was so necessary for the American POWs in VietNam. I guess one could say that laughter is similar to crying, in that they both relieve stress. Unfortunately, we don't always remember that when we need to...
"No one appreciates the very special genius of your conversation as the dog does."
Originally posted by Cindy Glass:
I don't see blonde jokes as substantially damaging to any group. ?
However I see it as Men and Women, not a race issue. ?
And many men in real life try to force their women to BECOME that image. Thus is the basis for the struggle that women have had over the years..... But that is mostly just from a lack of understanding of females.
Make visible what, without you, might perhaps never have been seen.
- Robert Bresson
"No one appreciates the very special genius of your conversation as the dog does."
Originally posted by Sriraj Rajaram:
I wonder what would happen if I were to post a joke about black people in this thread. I'm sure many would jump and have that post edited (even though there arent any/many blacks on this discussion board). So, even though the "victim" of the joke is absent, there are others to enforce PC. On the other hand, if I post a blonde joke, there is no "victim" (even though there may be a blonde on the discussion board). See the discrepancy?
Originally posted by Michael Ernest:
You can count the number of people in this thread who were openly able to laugh at themselves on one finger, and that's really too bad.
Originally posted by John Dunn:
The problem lies in the fact that our minds are trained to think that the blacks / gays / any historically oppressed group can get away with murder. But not the blonde, white group. This group has to be more responsible as compared to the others, they have to be more PC, more sensitive etc.
The blonde, white group get away with murder too, as Cindy Glass pointed out earlier.
When you compare the blonde-joke thing to historically oppressed groups you devalue their oppression. You basically say, "If we can't laugh at blacks, then we shouldn't ever laugh at anyone. - it's ALL the same." Well, it's really not the same. :roll:
Originally posted by Ravish Kumar:
Where were you when there were jokes on redneck or on any other community/race ??
Commentary From the Sidelines of history
Originally posted by herb slocomb:
Is Cindy the only blonde woman here?
Make visible what, without you, might perhaps never have been seen.
- Robert Bresson
Originally posted by Sriraj Rajaram:
I did not say "Don't joke about blondes /blacks/ gays etc" I said, if you can joke about rednecks / blondes / blue eyed people then you should allow others to make jokes about blacks / homosexuals / asians etc. without raising the PC stick.
"Thanks to Indian media who has over the period of time swiped out intellectual taste from mass Indian population." - Chetan Parekh
Originally posted by Michael Ernest:
I dunno, is she?
-Mumbai cha Bhau
So back to your question, why people make fun of blondes in the first place?
"JavaRanch, where the deer and the Certified play" - David O'Meara
Uncontrolled vocabularies
"I try my best to make *all* my posts nice, even when I feel upset" -- Philippe Maquet
Originally posted by Mumbai cha bhau:
So Herb Slocomb is partly right. But hey, what better way to forget our differences then to laugh it out?
Commentary From the Sidelines of history
Originally posted by Ravish Kumar:
But I hate racist jokes..
And my definition is different. If I find that chanracters can be replaced by anyone else then IMO its not a racist joke.If you dont get what I mean, tell me, I will PM you some racist jokes.
Commentary From the Sidelines of history
Let there be light.
doco
Originally posted by Sriraj Rajaram:
I dont see how there can be a joke in which the characters cannot be replaced. So every joke is legal!
"Thanks to Indian media who has over the period of time swiped out intellectual taste from mass Indian population." - Chetan Parekh
-Mumbai cha Bhau
Originally posted by Mumbai cha bhau:
that we started replacing the characters like 'sheikhchili' with 'surds' only after...
-Mumbai cha Bhau
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