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True Love ?

 
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Hey,

I would like to say something on this...

I never believed in LOVE. I always thought that it just a kind of attraction for a person, which lasts in few days after we start knowing each other well.

But my belief is changed now. Not only belief, I will say I loved someone truely and even he thinks the same. But now its too late for us.

I met him over the net. We were chat friends. He was based in Delhi and I was in Mumbai. We used to chat everyday. After few month of chatting, we started liking each other. We used to talk over the phone sometimes.

Then he tried to get a job in Mumbai and he shifted to Mumbai. We decided to meet each other and we met. But my first impression for him was not so good, means I didn't like his appearance. And I decided not to meet him again. But still we kept meeting each other for 4 years. During this period, I was pretty sure that I like him and I would like to be with him forever. But he was always indecisive about marrying each other, I don't know for what reason.

I waited for him to take some decision for 4 years and finally decided to get married with a guy, chosen by parents for me. I got married with someone else and I must say I am really happy with him.

But I always feel that, I missed something very important from my life. I feel I am incomplete without him. I am happy today with someone else but still I want to see myself happy with him. And you know, he feels the same. He is repenting for his indecisive nature. But now its too late...

You know worst part of our story....

We decided to forget each other...but we joined the same on the same day and we came to know this when we met each other at induction.

We see each other everyday...He is close to me but still there is big distnace between us which we can walk. And it really hurts.

Grishma
 
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Puffed piece.
 
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What do u mean by this Mohd Ali ???
 
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Its sounds like Bollywood movie.Pati,Patni or woh!!
Anyway if you hurt then don't take that seriously.
[ June 17, 2005: Message edited by: Mohd Ali Advani ]
 
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Hi Friends,
You all are discussing about true love,
BUT THIS IS NOT A PLACE TO DISCUSS SUCH SUBJECT, COME TO LOVE FOR JAVA.
IS'NIT!!!

take care you all!!

Regards,
Santosh
 
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Grishma,

Its heart touching. I am sorry for that.. but you know what Once you are married, its fine you should now try to be away from each other else there will allways be one corner for him, and that may, again i would say It may spoil ur present married life.

Cheers,
Rahul
[ June 21, 2005: Message edited by: Rahul Juneja ]
 
Rahul Juneja
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Hey Guys,

Here is a very Good quote for all of you who belive or don't believe in Love.

Once in a lifetime

Cheers,
Rahul
 
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Hi Grishma,
guess the whole situation is in your hands.
you have to decide who is right for you.
either way 2 of you will end up happy.
if stuck in between all 3 will end up miserable.
if you want both. make your moves very carefully.

What i feel is love lies with one and vague commitment/guilt adjustment/fear of loss/something likewise with the other.

cheers
Jay
 
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Originally posted by santosh borse:

BUT THIS IS NOT A PLACE TO DISCUSS SUCH SUBJECT, COME TO LOVE FOR JAVA.



This Is MD right..
discussing such things do not reduce your love for Java
 
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