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Mike Van
If at first you don't succeed, try, try again. Unless you really suck at it. Then, you might just want to try something else, if you dont' want to be a loser I mean.
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Mike Van
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How'd you feel if your parents told you you're to marry someone you've never seen because it will get your father a better job?
How'd you feel if your parents told you you're to marry someone you've never seen because it will get your father a better job?
Originally posted by alfred jones:
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then he is not your genetically parent![]()
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in many cultures that's exactly what parents do with their children...
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Tony Alicea
Senior Java Web Application Developer, SCPJ2, SCWCD
Originally posted by alfred jones:
it seems some people are not giving value of arranged marriage decided by parents and the boy.
how can you ignore your parents decision !!
you are here because of them...they have some expection from you...they have brought up you 25 years...they are always with your needs and your welfare.
tomorrow when you become a father..wont you have your expectation from your child ?think about this.
discuss with your parents about your partner and if you and your parents are happy everything is fine.
love is a difficult word nowadays...unfortunately there is no measurement system to measure a true love.....so dont take any decision just because of this love and ignore your parents conscent.
someone told a 25 years old boy is all-in-all...he can decide anything!
NO...absolutely wrong...he is not all-in-all ....he needs some advice from old and experienced people.
And finally, i can tell you one thing,your parents are your closest friends and they always wants their children to be happy.
My blood is tested +ve for Java.
Originally posted by Pradip Bhat:
Have you found the girl to marry ?![]()
My blood is tested +ve for Java.
Originally posted by Tony Alicea:
How about NO MARRIAGE altogether?
<h1>HA HA HA HA!</h1>
My blood is tested +ve for Java.
I actually think that pre-marital sex can improve the chances of a relationship working. Although many people may not like to talk about it, sex is an important part of a relationship, and I think it is good if a couple can find out if they are sexually compatible before committing themselves to a marriage.Originally posted by Jeroen T Wenting:
No sex before marriage
Indeed. While a marriage break up is unfortunate, sometimes it is better then staying together. It is not ideal for children to live in a single parent household when their parents split up, it may be less psychologically damaging then living in a household where both their parents can't stand each other.Shaming people into staying together by imposing a culture where you divorcing brings dishonour and/or financial ruin and loss of status to your family is not the answer, changing the attitude towards getting married is.
There will be glitches in my transition from being a saloon bar sage to a world statesman. - Tony Banks
Actually, yes. For a small child, the difference between having quarelling parents versus divorced parents is like the difference between having chronic soreness in one's legs versus having a leg amputated.Originally posted by Satish Chilukuri:
We talk about how bad it will be for children if the parents get divorced, but what about kids living in a house where the parents don't like each other and are constantly quarelling? Will they grow up any better?
Oddly enough, among all the people I've known in my life, I've never heard anyone explain that they stopped dating so-and-so due to sexual incompatibility. Are we talking about gross mismatches in genital size (not very common), or what?Originally posted by Dave Lenton:
I actually think that pre-marital sex can improve the chances of a relationship working. Although many people may not like to talk about it, sex is an important part of a relationship, and I think it is good if a couple can find out if they are sexually compatible before committing themselves to a marriage.
Unfortunately, people living together tend to behave better than during marriage (just as junior professors tend to work harder before being awarded tenure than afterwards), so you don't learn that much after all.Dave Lenton:
By living together a couple can learn about each other and work out if they will be able to enter into a long term relationship. You can never really know someone until you live with them after all! It is better that a couple can live together for a while and then realise that they aren't compatible before getting married rather then after.
This probably depends on the child in question, as situations will be different. My own personal experience is that it was better to be in a single parent household then in a house with both parents arguing. It could be different for other people though, and probably depends on a number of different factors.Originally posted by Frank Silbermann:
Actually, yes. For a small child, the difference between having quarelling parents versus divorced parents is like the difference between having chronic soreness in one's legs versus having a leg amputated.
There will be glitches in my transition from being a saloon bar sage to a world statesman. - Tony Banks
Of course there could be a physical element, but I was talking more about an emotional incompatibility. If people live together in a sexual relationship then they are likely to be intimate and emotionally open with each other. Some people may find that they are not comfortable doing this with a particular person, but may not realise that until they attempt it.Originally posted by Frank Silbermann:
Oddly enough, among all the people I've known in my life, I've never heard anyone explain that they stopped dating so-and-so due to sexual incompatibility. Are we talking about gross mismatches in genital size (not very common), or what?
This could depend on how long they live together. Certainly at first they are likely to be on their best behaviour, but after a while things will probably normalise.Unfortunately, people living together tend to behave better than during marriage (just as junior professors tend to work harder before being awarded tenure than afterwards), so you don't learn that much after all.
There will be glitches in my transition from being a saloon bar sage to a world statesman. - Tony Banks
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