You can use the "Configure Tomcat" shortcut that is created for you. Go to the "Java" tab, you can then add a new line to the "Java Options" field. It is recommended to use one line for each option so it will be a bit clearer where one option ends and the next one starts. For instance, I only added "-Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote" there and now I can see the memory MBeans in
Lambda Probe. I couldn't get JConsole to connect to it yet but that has something to do with the security settings.
My full content of the "Java Options" field: