IBM operates in the business space of large, conservative companies who value stability and reliability over rapid adoption of the latest bleeding-edge technology. That's why they're slow, and most of their key customers follow the same
pattern.
The market share for WebSphere is very high, so it's a good bet to know it. At the same time, it's also a good idea to get to know other, more progressive platforms just as a matter of keeping up with the latest technologies.
I'd suggest you download and try WAS Community Edition, which is basically the Apache Geronimo Server with a few IBM enhancements. Because it's open-source, it can adopt new technologies much faster than the commercial edition. There's also an Eclipse plugin available to aid in developing for it.