Arun Giridhar wrote:all i wanted to become a Geek in life and i'm not or wanted to go into these stuff
Seriously? A geek is someone who is technically strong, and loves to learn new things always. I don't think this stops anybody from going in 'these stuff'.
I'm not saying that you get back to that lady, but don't make any prejudices based on one incident.
If you don't want to go into 'these stuff', then it is absolutely fine. Just make sure that you have a valid reason and that this single incident is not driving you to that decision.
And believe me, life is much more beyond becoming a geek
Besides, a true geek is not 'scared to hell' due to such things
Regards,
Anayonkar Shivalkar (SCJP, SCWCD, OCMJD, OCEEJBD)