posted 11 years ago
Maybe one of your goals should be learning how to write in paragraphs.. Just joking.
You are experiencing what some people call a quarter-life crisis. People have heard of mid-life crisis which hits you somewhere around 40-50. What you have is quarter life crisis that affects people around 25. The problem is in the first quarter of your life, you are being guided by other people; by your teachers, by your parents. It starts off with your parents telling what to wear, what to eat, etc. eventually as you grow up, people around you start guiding you less, and you become more and more independent.
Eventually, you reach a point where everyone sees you as a grown up, and guesswork what, they stop telling you what to do. It can be scary to know that you are on your own now. It's like you are the kid who just learnt to ride a bike and has just realized that daddy isn't holding the bike. That can be scary! You are doing it on your own now, and you will have to do it on your own for the rest of your life. Mommy might come and kiss your boo-boo, but no one is going to catch you when you fall. And really, you don't want them too!
All in all, setting goals is easy, finding the right goal is somewhat difficult. However, what is most scary is realizing that you have to set your own goals. It takes some time getting used to. There are lot of things that you could focus on: improving your communication skills, learning a new hobby, volunteering, reading about what other succeful people have done in their lives.