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I haven't seen a book that could replace Martin Fowler's UML Distilled yet. because this book covers everything and easy to read. In your case,
You may try following books togather:
1. The Unified Modeling Language User Guide
by Grady Booch, James Rumbaugh, Ivar Jacobson
2. The Unified Software Development Process
by Grady Booch, James Rumbaugh, Ivar Jacobson
3. Software Project Management
by Walker Royce
3. Use Case Driven Object Modeling with UML
by Doug RosenBerg with Kendall Scott.
I think martin fowler might has a web site and You may found a lof of stuffs from his web site as well.
Here is link:
http://www.martinfowler.com/ [ March 26, 2002: Message edited by: Sunny Liu ]